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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 05:47:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By owning and working in a gym off and on for years, I had noticed that people where looking more and more for energy supplements, including me. The desire was to have extra energy but not be WIRED, or have hard crash, or feel bad about polluting your body. I had started by finding and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By owning and working in a gym off and on for years, I had noticed that people where looking more and more for energy supplements, including me. The desire was to have extra energy but not be WIRED, or have hard crash, or feel bad about polluting your body. I had started by finding and developing and energy supplement, Xcellerator.</p>
<p>First I started selling it online and then I started placing the products into local Natural Supplement stores. The demand continued to increase and I was able to solely work on the business. During my communication and interactions with people, I started to see a need for more. Men where looking for a healthy alternative to increase there libido. They wanted certain natural and healthy products that they could easily associate themselves with and give them the results they where looking for. They also did not want to have an encyclopedia with them to tell them what all the different items did for them. So I began researching and developing Wow.</p>
<p>By recommending natural supplements to my customers and myself I was right on top of the information and resources I needed. I read many natural supplement books, consulted with doctors and master herbalists, tried a variety of prototypes, tested varieties with my customers and finally developed our WOW product. During this time one of the stores that I worked with needed help and I bought it! I was able to work more and more with customers on a one and one basis and continue to learn more about their needs and results. Through out this process I put together our Board of doctors and consult with then regularly. I would then take the feedback I received from my customers and redevelop or simply add other ingredients to our products. Then I was able to start placing the products out on the market through my current contacts in Utah and through this web site.</p>
<p>The products continue to spread to other regions by word of mouth and the networking that we do to create continued awareness of our products out to the public. I am very excited by the huge positive response that we receive from our customers!</p>
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		<title>Attraction and Love Formulas</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 21:46:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by: Dr. Dennis W. Neder I’ve been promoting a new concept on my show that has been very successful in explaining how attraction and love work. I call these them (collectively) “The Formula”. Is there really a “formula” for attraction and love? Yes, there is. I discovered them when I was working on what sorts [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by: <strong>Dr. Dennis W. Neder</strong></p>
<p>I’ve been promoting a new concept on my show that has been very successful in explaining how attraction and love work. I call these them (collectively) “The Formula”.</p>
<p>Is there really a “formula” for attraction and love? Yes, there is. I discovered them when I was working on what sorts of approaches work best with what sorts of women.<span id="more-152"></span></p>
<p>Now, keep in mind that these are formulas for women, not men. Guys have a totally different formula and if you’re good, one day soon I’ll publish those for you girls.</p>
<p>What’s the benefit of knowing these formulas? For any guy that is serious about meeting women, creating relationships and even managing ones they already have, the benefits are huge. In fact, it’s in these very formulas that I see the greatest number of mistakes being made by men.</p>
<p>To wit; here are the formulas:</p>
<p><strong>1) The “Attraction Fomula”:</strong></p>
<p>Interest + Rapport and Connection = Attraction</p>
<p><strong>2) The “Love Formula”:</strong></p>
<p>Attraction + Safety and Security + Greater Connection = Love</p>
<p>They can also work in reverse:</p>
<p><strong>1) The “Loss of Love Formula”:</strong></p>
<p>Love &#8211; Loss of Connection &#8211; Loss of Safety and Security = Attraction</p>
<p><strong>2) The “Loss of Attraction Formula”:</strong></p>
<p>Attraction &#8211; Loss of Rapport and Connection = Interest</p>
<p>So, what exactly do these mean?</p>
<p>Let’s start with attraction first.</p>
<p>What you need to know is that in order for women to be attracted to you, you have to start with some interest. Now the biggest reason why most men don’t approach women is simple: they believe that there’s no automatic interest on the part of the woman – and that may be true.</p>
<p>What they don’t get however is that interest is something that can be created!</p>
<p>Think about this: let’s say that you are even reasonably interesting or of even average attractiveness. In fact, you don’t even have to be average – you can be below average if you combine them together!</p>
<p>A simple, reasonable approach can create “interest” in your target. It’s really pretty simple and is based on the very common understanding that people have a natural need to connect with others. Thus, if you know this, (and now you do!) you can always create attraction from your simple approach.</p>
<p>The next step is in building that up to attraction and the key components are “rapport” and “connection”. What are these?</p>
<p>Rapport is defined as “harmonious or sympathetic relation”. Think about that for a minute. How do you build harmonious or sympathetic relation? By playing to those things in your target that are the same or with which she can sympathize. It’s that simple! Of course, the more complicated question is how you do that.</p>
<p>In my books, “Being a Man in a Woman’s World I &amp; II”, I teach 4 different Communication Systems. It’s through these communication systems that you build rapport. By either being the same as (matching) her systems or in other cases, countering them (differing), you turn her interest into attraction. Some people use these intuitively and others “stumble upon” them but far more have to learn and practice them. Of course, if they work this well, that effort is more than worth it – and it is!</p>
<p>Connection comes automatically by how well your target relates to you. Obviously, if you build great rapport with her, she’s going to begin relating right off the bat and in fact, this is where attraction comes from. I can’t tell you how many women I’ve talked to that said, “You know, the more I talked to him, the more attracted I became!” Now you know why.</p>
<p>In the second formula, the “Love Formula”, you have to add a few components, but again, it’s simple to use effectively.</p>
<p>One key aspect of this formula is that this is likely a primary goal of your target – to be in love. Thus, even without knowing it, she’ll be more than ready to help you get there! All you need to do is provide the other key elements which are:</p>
<p>Safety means creating a place or environment where your target feels safe with you. This isn’t just location, although location is one important part. That’s why it’s almost impossible for you to get a woman to focus on you when she’s being stalked by a jealous ex-husband; unless she sees you as her protector.</p>
<p>Security comes from believing that she can reasonably accept the risks you pose in her getting hurt emotionally. As you grow your investment in her, she (hopefully) will do the same. Now think about this: how many guys have you heard of that have done all the supposed “right things” such as taking her out on expensive dates, buying her expensive gifts, taking her on expensive trips, etc., only to find that she falls out of (or worse, never fell into) love with him?</p>
<p>This happens all the time, right? Do you want to know why? It’s simple: when you over-invest; that is, investing without getting back some investment from her at an equal rate, she begins to believe that you have to work this hard because you have nothing else to offer. This means that she’s never going to get the place where she feels the risk and thus, doesn’t need your security! Thus, love will never come for her.</p>
<p>Once you create both safety and security within her mind, all you need to do is back it up with some more connection and bingo, she falls in love!</p>
<p>I think you’re getting the picture of just how important these formulas are!</p>
<p>If you really learn them and practice them, you’ll have a tool to build any level of attraction or love within any woman you want. Likewise, you’ll be able to remove it too. Your choice.</p>
<p>Best regards…</p>
<p><strong>About The Author</strong></p>
<p>Dr. Neder is known around the   world as a tough, but fair relationship expert, dealing with all sorts of   dating, sex and relationship issues from a man&#8217;s perspective. He has written   14 books (&#8220;Being a Man in a Woman&#8217;s World™&#8221; series) and is working   on 2 others. He&#8217;s also written hundreds of articles, answered over 26,000   reader/viewer questions and has been on over a thousand radio and TV shows.   &#8220;Dr. Dennis&#8221; is funny, direct and intuitive and has a unique   ability to get right to the heart of the issue.</p>
<p>Do you have a burning question that needs an answer? Are you a man that wants   to better experiences with women, or a woman that wants to better understand   men? To learn more, go to <a href="http://beingaman.com/">http://beingaman.com</a> and <a href="http://beingaman.tv/">http://beingaman.tv</a>.   You can also follow his micro-blog at: <a href="http://twitter.com/dwneder">http://twitter.com/dwneder</a>.</p>
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		<title>Taking a Look at Your Best Sex Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 21:31:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Raquel Alfaro</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oprah Winfrey spent a whole week talking about “living your best life.”  On her Friday television show she spent the time talking about sex and intimacy with Dr. Laura Berman who said that there are five important steps to improving your love life. In the first step she talked about how the percent of women [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oprah Winfrey spent a whole week talking about “<em>living your best life</em>.”  On her Friday television show she spent the time talking about sex and intimacy with Dr. Laura Berman who said that there are five important steps to improving your love life.</p>
<p>In the first step she talked about how the percent of women who <em>regularly</em> fake orgasms during sex equals more than 70 percent! Wow!  If those calculations are correct, the American woman’s lack of sexual fulfillment is at crisis levels.  With a woman feeling sexually unfulfilled it is difficult for a relationship to really thrive and meet it’s full potential.  Helping a woman to reach sexual fulfillment is a multifaceted journey.  Making the journey easier includes tackling issues that may keep many women from fully enjoying sexual intimacy with their partners. Some of these issues include; no interest or desire, feeling lack of intimacy with her partner, and daily stressors.<span id="more-141"></span></p>
<h2>Tackling Low Interest, Desire, or Pleasure</h2>
<p>Although tackling what is holding you back personally may take some self-discovery, there are many things that you can do to help discover what gets you excited.  In Dr. Laura Berman’s step 3 she gives a few suggestions:  Start a sex journal, take a pole dancing class or other activities that make you feel sexy, try a new position, try a new sex toy.  We have been exploring the effect that good, quality dark chocolate can have on your sex drive.  Wow! Chocolate not only utilizes the aphrodisiac effects of chocolate, but also compounds the result using a special herbal blend that many women report has helped them reach higher levels of pleasure and orgasm.  So, don’t let your man have all the fun?!  Try something that gets you excited, that makes you feel vibrant and sexy, and you are both bound to have a good time.</p>
<h2>Tackling Lack of Intimacy with Your Partner</h2>
<p>Women relate to sex differently than men do.  Men tend to use sex as a way to create intimacy within a relationship.  Women, on the other hand, want to feel the emotional intimacy with her partner that then leads to sex.  In other words, we want to feel close to someone, we want to feel cared for by them, before we desire sexual intimacy.  If you are not feeling emotional intimacy with your partner, take time to build some.  Dr. Laura Berman’s step 2 suggests taking time to sit down and map out the way you would like your partner to touch you, and for them to do the same.  You could also take it a step further and really target what little things you <em>love</em> your partner to say to you or do for you that really makes you feel close to them.</p>
<h2>Revive Your Love Life!</h2>
<p>Dr. Laura Berman talks about how the daily stress of family, work, bills, and other pressing issues can push the thought of a sex life off the radar of what is important.  She suggests making it a priority by scheduling a weekly date night and by making sure your bedroom is a haven just for the two of you to share together.  Making sexual intimacy a priority could be “the key to reviving your intimacy,” she says.</p>
<p>Whether you do a date night or just make a conscious effort to revive passion in your relationship, find what works for you because when your fire is lit and burning…let’s just say the mood is often contagious.</p>
<p>For more info on Wow! Chocolate:</p>
<p>http://www.ultraperform.com</p>
<p>For more info on Dr. Laura Berman:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bermancenter.com/">www.bermancenter.com</a></p>
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		<title>Ways To Tell A Guy Likes You: 5 Reliable Signs Of Male Attraction</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 21:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by: Michael Lee Listen up, girls! You don’t have to waste precious time biting your fingernails or converging with your friends to figure out whether a guy is interested in you or not. There are ways to tell a guy likes you; and lucky for you, I’m sharing these tell-tale signs right now from a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by: <strong>Michael Lee</strong></p>
<p>Listen up, girls! You don’t have to waste precious time biting your fingernails or converging with your friends to figure out whether a guy is interested in you or not. There are ways to tell a guy likes you; and lucky for you, I’m sharing these tell-tale signs right now from a guy’s (and master persuader’s) point of view.</p>
<p>Aside from buying you a drink or introducing himself face to face, there are other ways to tell a guy likes you. They include either of the following:</p>
<p><strong>1. Raising of the eyebrows </strong></p>
<p>When a man sees a girl he likes, his immediate reaction is to raise and lower his eyebrows. It usually happens very quickly, so most women don’t really notice it. However, knowing what you know now, I’m sure you’ll have an easier time catching this tell-tale sign.</p>
<p><strong>2. Closeness of space </strong></p>
<p>One of the reliable ways to tell a guy likes you is by how close he’s sitting or standing next to you. If a man is interested, he’ll make sure there’s not much of a distance between your bodies.</p>
<p>For example, if you and your friends all decide to go out for dinner, the guy who likes you will most probably try to take the seat next to you or across from you.</p>
<p><strong>3. Teasing of friends </strong></p>
<p>When a guy likes another girl, his friends will most likely tease him about it. So don’t take his friends’ jokes too lightly. You’ll never know what hidden message they contain.</p>
<p>Of course, it’s also best to keep up appearances. Don’t let them know that you’re onto them, so you’ll have more time and opportunities to decipher what the teasing is really all about.</p>
<p><strong>4. Enlargement of pupils </strong></p>
<p>One of the dependable ways to tell a guy likes you is when his pupils enlarge. If you’re close enough, you can see just how much a person is into you.</p>
<p>Likewise, if his pupils are narrow, then he probably doesn’t fancy you that much. Try looking at your own pupils in the mirror, so you’ll know what kind of reaction you’re supposed to be looking for.</p>
<p><strong>Note:</strong> Pupils enlarge in a dark room, and become smaller in a bright room. So consider these factors too when interpreting his level of attraction to you.</p>
<p><strong>5. Sudden nervous habits </strong></p>
<p>Guys tend to become nervous around girls they admire. So if a guy friend suddenly becomes a klutz around you, or if he finds himself stuttering and unable to form coherent sentences, then you know what I’m talking about.</p>
<p>These are just some of the proven ways to tell a guy likes you. You can use these methods to figure out your next move, without the risk of embarrassing yourself or the other person.</p>
<p><strong>About The Author</strong></p>
<p>Want to easily and quickly attract the opposite sex? It’s easy! Use hypnotic persuasion techniques and flirting body language. Grab your FREE course that reveals 10 groundbreaking persuasion secrets at: <a href="http://www.20daypersuasion.com/secrets.htm">http://www.20daypersuasion.com/secrets.htm</a></p>
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